A Simple Guide to Living Better

Patrick Poh
3 min readJan 28, 2025

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Life today moves fast.

Between endless notifications, busy schedules, and constant pressure to succeed, it’s no wonder many of us feel overwhelmed.

More people are asking: “How do I find happiness and purpose?”

Photo by Danica Tanjutco on Unsplash

Why We’re Struggling

Let’s be honest — many of us cope with life’s pressures by turning to drinks, drugs, or other quick fixes. It’s not because we’re bad people. We’re just trying to feel better in a world that often leaves us feeling empty and alone. But these temporary solutions actually leave us feeling worse in the long run.

A Different Path Forward

There’s another way to feel good — one that doesn’t require anything outside ourselves. Our bodies are amazing. They can naturally create feelings of joy and peace without any substances. Through practices like yoga and meditation, we can tap into this natural ability to feel good.

Many of us go through life feeling separate from everyone and everything around us. We build invisible walls between ourselves and others, between ourselves and nature, and even between our minds and bodies. These walls might feel like protection, but they actually make us feel more anxious and alone.

When we start breaking down these walls — through yoga, meditation, or simply spending time in nature — something wonderful happens. We begin to feel connected to something bigger than ourselves. This connection brings a deep sense of peace that no external thing can match.

Finding Your Strength (from Within)

We all have amazing potential within us. But to reach it, we need to take care of our whole selves — body, mind, and spirit. This isn’t about becoming perfect. It’s about living more fully and authentically by getting to know ourselves better.

Simple Ways to Start Your Journey

Want to find more peace in your life? Here are some simple ways to begin:

  • Sit quietly for a few minutes each day, just noticing your breath and thoughts. Don’t judge them — just observe.
  • Get outside more often. Take walks in nature, feel the sun on your face, listen to the birds. Nature has a way of helping us feel more grounded.
  • Express yourself in a ‘creative manner’ — draw, sing, dance, write. Don’t worry about being “good” at it. Just enjoy the process.
  • Move your body in ways that feel good to you, whether that’s yoga, running, or just stretching.
  • Talk to someone you trust about your feelings, or consider working with a counselor who can help you understand yourself better.

A New Way of Looking at Success

We often think happiness comes from having more stuff or achieving more things. But real fulfillment comes from within. This doesn’t mean giving up on goals or success. It means finding peace and satisfaction in who you are, not just in what you do or own.

Here’s the empowering truth: you already have everything you need to be happy and fulfilled. It’s not always easy to remember this, especially when life gets tough. But with practice and patience, you can learn to tap into your inner strength and find peace, no matter what’s happening around you.

Finding inner peace isn’t about reaching some perfect state of calm. It’s about growing and learning every day. It’s about being kind to yourself when things get hard and remembering that you’re connected to something bigger than yourself.

As you start this journey, remember that you are not broken or missing anything .By taking small steps each day to tune into yourself and connect with others, you can discover a deeper, more lasting happiness than you ever thought possible.

The peace you’re looking for is already within you.

Take it one day at a time. Be patient with yourself. And remember — the most important journey you’ll ever take is the one that leads you back to yourself.

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Patrick Poh
Patrick Poh

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