The Compass Within: Navigating the Unknown, the Better, and the Present

Patrick Poh
3 min readJan 18, 2024

Life, in its grand and maddeningly beautiful design, presents us with a constant internal tug-of-war.

We are creatures of two worlds, forever caught between the allure of the unknown, the insatiable drive for “better,” and the comforting familiarity of the present. Within this intricate dance lies a question that has echoed through generations: how do we find balance?

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Embracing the unknown is thrilling

It whispers of potential, of uncharted territories waiting to be explored. But venturing into the void without a map is a recipe for disaster.

The known, while comfortable, can become constricting, its limitations chafing against the edges of our aspirations. We must learn to objectively assess the value of both. Is the familiar still fertile ground for growth, or has it become barren soil in desperate need of renewal?

Is the unknown a treacherous cliff face or a fertile valley brimming with possibilities? Each choice demands a clear-eyed evaluation, a weighing of risks and rewards in the crucible of reason.

The pursuit of “better”

It fuels our ambition, pushes us to excel. It’s the engine that drives innovation, that compels us to reach for the stars.

But when this pursuit becomes fixated, an insatiable hunger consumes us. We lose sight of the beauty woven into the fabric of the present, forever chasing a phantom horizon.

Appreciation becomes a fleeting afterthought, a sigh for a moment already flown.

Learning to savor the richness of what we have, to find joy in the journey rather than solely in the destination, is crucial. Only then can we truly celebrate the “better” when it arrives, untainted by the bitterness of perpetual dissatisfaction.

The present, the heartbeat of every moment, is often romanticized. It whispers of serenity, of finding contentment in the simple rhythms of existence.

But stagnation cloaked in the guise of present awareness is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. The world around us spins, evolves, and demands adaptation. Clinging rigidly to the familiar, refusing to acknowledge the need for moderate progress and self-improvement, is to invite obsolescence.

The delicate dance lies in embracing the present while acknowledging the inevitability of change, in finding tranquility within the flow of time.

How do we navigate this intricate choreography?

There is no singular, all-encompassing answer. The compass lies within, its needle perpetually spinning, calibrated to the unique landscape of each individual’s life. We must learn to trust this internal guidance system, to hone our ability to make rational judgments based on context and circumstance.

Sometimes, the call of the unknown will be undeniable, the need for change will scream louder than the comfort of the familiar. We must be brave enough to answer, to push forward and to take calculated risks with eyes wide open, hearts full of hope.

Other times, the present will demand our attention, reminding us of the beauty already held within our grasp. We must savor it, cultivate gratitude, and find contentment in the stillness.

Very often, it will be the pursuit of “better” that guides us, but we must walk this path with awareness, ensuring it doesn’t overshadow the magic already present.

The balance we seek is not a static state, but a dynamic dance.

It requires constant calibration, a willingness to learn and adapt as the rhythm of life changes. It’s about cultivating an inner knowing, a deep understanding of our own needs and desires.

It’s about embracing the unknown with courage, cherishing the present with gratitude, and pursuing “better” with mindful appreciation.

This, ultimately, is the art of living — a vibrant tapestry woven from the threads of the here and now, the promise of the future, and the wisdom of experience.

Let us walk this path with open hearts, clear minds, and an unwavering faith in the compass within.

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